Using the calendar module
import calendar
from datetime import date
def monthdelta(date, delta):
m, y = (date.month+delta) % 12, date.year + ((date.month)+delta-1) // 12
if not m: m = 12
d = min(date.day, calendar.monthrange(y, m)[1])
return date.replace(day=d,month=m, year=...